Where is the church when my child is in crisis? As a parent, yes I am a parent before I am a pastor, I struggle with the same questions you do. Where is the church? What should the church be doing for my family? Why won't someone reach out to my family?
Here's the conclusion I have come to, as a parent, after pondering, praying and asking these questions. The Bible clearly teaches and indicates that as a parent I am called to pastor my child. I am called to pastor and lead my home. Noah is a great example of pastoring his family in a corrupt godless culture.
It was by faith that Noah built a large boat to save his family from the flood. He obeyed God, who warned him about things that had never happened before. Hebrews 11:7
We think of Noah as trying to save the world but his first priority was his family. Amidst all his flaws and shortcomings he led his family. That's what we need to do as parents. We need to live Jesus before our family. We need to love them closer to Jesus, not try to control them closer to Jesus. We need to pray them closer to Jesus. We need to teach them in our home about Jesus. Can I challenge you to take the steps that you need to for your family? I have a new question for all of us. Parents, what are we doing to save our family?
What then is the role of the church for my family and for your family?
God gave pastors and teachers to the church to do the following.
Their responsibility is to equip God's people to do his work and build up the church, the body of Christ. Ephesians 4:12
Our church is here to equip you to do God's work in your home first and then we trust to do His work as part of our church and in the community. We want strong families. We want the best for your family. I believe we are giving the best, are you receiving it and applying it? Are you an active part of our church? What steps do you need to take?
My heart breaks when I see parents of young children investing more time in sports and hobbies than teaching their family God's Word. Dad and mom, teach Jesus to your little ones. Don't miss the opportunity.
My heart breaks when I see parents of teens in crisis knowing the formative years are behind and now your greatest influence will be your actions. Live like Jesus like you never have before! When you do this, you will fail but get back up and live like Jesus!
I pray for your families.